Why might a Gay man or Lesbian see a Psychologist? (Either in-person or via Telehealth)
Some reasons could include:
* Wanting to develop a Gay/Lesbian support network away from “the scene”?
* Wanting to explore questions about "How will I meet Mr/Ms Right?"
* Dealing with issues about discrimination or less than equal treatment
* Feeling the need to hide who you really are in the workplace or other settings
* Wanting to reduce internalized Homophobia or heterosexism
Apart from the “usual” things people go to see a counsellor or psychologist about…
Articles by me published in OutInPerth and elsewhere:
More than half a century after Stonewall the fight continues (28th June 2020)
LGBTIQ+ people’s mental health worse now than during postal survey (14th November 2019)
Reaching out and sharing stories under the cloud of ‘religious freedom’ (25th October 2019)
How do we protect ourselves from the culture wars? (8th September 2019)
A mental health survival guide for the religious freedom debate (28th June 2019)
What you as an LGBTI person can do to improve your mental health (21st February 2019)
[Linkedin Book Review] Gay & Bisexual Men Living with Prostate Cancer: From diagnosis to recovery. (Ussher, Perz & Rosser Eds.) A new book on a subject not often discussed. ( December 15, 2018 )
One year on from the plebiscite we didn’t need (10th November 2018)
Stonewall and Mardi Gras: Are they still relevant? (26th June 2018)
Conversion Therapy: It’s all about politics, not science (17th May 2018)
Maintaining the rage against political and religious conservatives. (9th January 2018)
Being prepared for marriage equality and potential “sour losers” (Nov 9th 2017)
Protecting yourself and your family from marriage-equality hate (August 2017)
Take Action (23rd May 2014)
Books: Coming Out in the Workplace - a collection of resources on the subject (a Handout that might be of interest,)
From the Australian Psychological Society (APS):
(A story about a Gay man moving from the country to the city and is assisted by a psychologist - part of the APS "Stories of change" series)
The Australian Psychological Society LGBTI page may also be of interest
You might find this of interest - The ANZ "#HoldTight" Campaign about how ANZ is expressing support for the LGBTIQ community with it's “Hold Tight”, a campaign celebrating the power of holding hands.
Watch the add here on YouTube
See ANZ staff talk about the #HoldTight campaign
LGBTI Inspirational stories and links:
It Gets Better - A Message From The RCMP (Royal Canadian Mounted Police)
An inspirational Youtube Video - "Stand Up! - Don't Stand for Homophobic Bullying"
Also worth looking at on Youtube "Coming Out" & "Coming Out to Each Other"
From "BeLongto" the Irish support group for young Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender people.
Websites that may be particularly relevant include:
- Another Closet - LGBTIQ Domestic and Family Violence.
Most LGBTIQ relationships are based on love and respect. Some are based on abuse and control. This website is written for people in LGBTIQ relationships who are, or may be, experiencing domestic and family violence.
The Beyond Blue website for the Gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex (GLBTI) population;
- Freedom Centre - For young people (under 26) to support each other and their communities to be informed, happy and healthy about their sexuality, sex and gender.
- Curve Magazine (previously published as "Lesbians on the Loose Magazine") - Their mission: To maintain and build upon 25 years of successful publishing and continue to offer fresh and diverse content for lesbian and bisexual women through quality journalism and community involvement.
- Living Proud (previously known as Gay & Lesbian Community Services of WA)
- OutinPerth - Gay and Lesbian Perth WA News and information
- Perth Rainbow Toastmasters - Perth Rainbow Toastmaster Club is specifically for members, friends, family and supporters of the LGBTQIA+ community.
- Pride WA - Celebrating Diverse Sexualities
- Prime Timers WA - Is a social networking organisation, established in 2003 for mature gay and bisexual men.
- Q-life - The Nationally oriented counselling and referral service for people of diverse sex, genders and sexualities
Books, biography's, and autobiography's that may be useful include:
Breaking out II : The complete guide to building a positive LGBTI identity - Kevin Alderson
Family Outing - by Chastity Bono
Christianity, social tolerance, and homosexuality - John Boswell
Bulletproof faith: a spiritual survival guide for gay and lesbian Christians - Candace Chellew-Hodge
The velvet rage : overcoming the pain of growing up gay in a straight man's world - Alan Downs
Loving ourselves : the gay and lesbian guide to self-esteem - Kimeron N. Hardin
A Private Life: Fragments, Memories, Friends - Michael Kirby
Breaking the surface - Greg Louganis
Twists and Turns - Matthew Mitcham, with Larry Writer
When the drama club is not enough : lessons from the Safe Schools Program for Gay and Lesbian Students - Jeff Perrotti
Empowering the tribe : a positive guide to gay and lesbian self-esteem - Richard Pimental-Habib
DVD's* that may be of interest
Brokeback Mountain (2005)
Beautiful Thing (1996)
Desert Hearts (1985) Youtube trailer
Get Real (1998) Youtube Trailer
The Hidden History of Homosexual Australia (Documentary) (2005)
Ideal Home (2018) Youtube Trailer
The Imitation Game (2014) (Movie trailer)
The Laramie Project (2002) Youtube Trailer
Longtime Companion (1989) Youtube Trailer
Love Simon (2018) Youtube Trailer
Love! Valour! Compassion! (1997) Youtube Trailer
Maurice (1987) movie trailer
Milk (2008) Youtube trailer
Oranges are not the only fruit (1989)
Pride (2014) movie trailer
The Sum of Us (1994) movie trailer
Shelter (2007) The theme song on Youtube
Stonewall (1995 docu-drama) Stonewall (2015 docu-drama)
A Very Natural Thing (1974)
Victim (1961) Youtube Trailer
The Wedding Banquet (1993) Movie Trailer
* Links are to the Internet Movie Database (IMDB).
The Stonewall Inn - Greenwich Village, New York
Site of the June 28, 1969 Stonewall Riots often described as the start of the modern Gay and Lesbian rights movement.
"Our gayness is not something like skin colour, or sex, or infirmity, apparent to both us and others. We have to discover our homosexuality, and having discovered it, we have a wide range of options, hardly available to others who are stigmatized, as to how we should reveal our stigma."
Dennis Altman (1971) Homosexual Oppression and Liberation. New York, NY: Avon Books.
